WARNING; this post might be not helping you much, more likely to get inspired. i am no where professional at giving advices. i might have some cursing words but im trying to limit them. 

Hello peoples! greetings from my house hohoho. so, if you are here to get some advice on how to accept your imperfection - you might be in the right place may i say. 

Recently, i mean by recently is about 2 -3 weeks ago, i've tried to being healthy, because i wanted to lose my weight and being someone that i wanted. i've been drinking a lot of water and eating less and lesser each days. 2 weeks from now, muslims will have this festival called Hari Raya AidilFitri, and what i wanted is i want to be looking fine and not plump. im not obese, im a average and healthy but however my lifestyle isnt. i still eat junk that not good for my diet plans. 

i've started to lose weight for the past 5 months by stressing a lot. my face breaking out so bad. my weight started to gain back again after all the stress being relieved. i started working out - by i mean working out, i do at least 15 minutes of streching in my room everysingle day in the morning and before i sleep. i losing my sleep so much because of my bad habits which staying up late eventhough the next day i have an early class - which is not good.

so, at one point, i standing in front of my mirror, grabbing my fat belly, looking my pale face, looking at my curly hair, grabbing my and judging how my tight is so big, the gap on my teeth, my scars at my legs because of mosquitoes bites and started to have a mental breakdown. then, i look at my own face - then realise how my face isnt covered up with pimples and acne, how i am not obese or aneroxic, how i am beautiful and perks of being tall that not everyone have it in my school, how i am avoiding to eat junks like everyone else, and the most important, how smart i am. 

the next day, i started to feel like shit, but the thing that i realised, i was happy about my body. i was having the perfect day because of how i think my body is perfect. in the mood of accepting how my body is made. how grateful i am to stand in this world and i know one day i will passed away. i wanted to be a better person and a grateful person who are grateful of what god had gave me. im lucky that i can still breath smoothly, and still alive. 

sometimes, in your bright path, there will always be some negativity. example of myself - one of my close people in my life - call me fat, call me ugly because of how my teeth is having a gap and not bright. but, i will have my chin up and walk around this world and proud of them. 

this is what you called happiness. accept your flaws and be grateful because god gave you chance to be standing here. In Sha Allah.

so here are some steps about how you can accept your own flaws and imperfections.

1) Be proud of what you given. loves your flaws. you may feel insecure because no one was going to date you and will always ignoring you because of your flaws. 

well, guess what, a true patner or a true friends will never bothered with your imperfections. i mean who cares about those fat as long as you healthy, who cares about your bones as long as you can still be healthy. i know some of my friends always complaining about how they wanted to gaining weight so bad just because of tired of hearing those 'compliments' about how skinny they are and how boney they are. Loving your flaws and be proud walking with it! :)

2) be grateful. remember that you can still see the world and breath just as fine. thank to god, be grateful to god.

3) make your life all worthy because not everyone can still having a worthy life :) it would be amazing if you think that your flaws are actually some pretty cool stuff to have! :)

4) change. change yourself. if you can't stand with your flaws, change it to what you think its better. so if you wanna lose some weight because you want to get rid of some fat, then go for it, it's a lifestyle changing. its healthy. but make sure dont put yourself in pressure too much!

5) remember that there are some people out there love you unconditionaly :)

wikiHow have some tips on how to embrace your flaws! click here to read it :)

so, what you gonna do is love yourself for you. love you because you know yourself more than anyone else. remember that everyone is not perfect and every single people have flaws but the way we treat the flaws is diffrent. be yourself and who you want to be. be one of a kind.
remind yourself everyone is beautiful in their own ways. make a life changing and till we meet soon! see you again guys. i love you :)